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Sunday, April 10, 2016

Staying out of their bedrooms and bathrooms Part 1

  I rarely do this, but this post is a rebuttal to a blog post a man posted in a Facebook group I am in called  The Christian Blogger's Network. The blog post is titled "Christians We Need to Get Out of People's Bathrooms (and Bedrooms)". If you don't feel like reading his post, he is knocking Christians for daring to fight the gay agenda and for daring to want people to use the bathroom of their gender.

Part 1: Staying out of "their" bathrooms.

  This bathroom issue is not gay issue. No one is threatening anyone's rights, no one is interfering in anyone's lifestyle. Anyone with common sense should know it is pure idiocy to open women's bathrooms and locker rooms to any man or boy who decides he wants to be a woman. With the amount of molesters, rapists, and perverts in our world, these people fighting for this "right" are just making it easier for these kinds of people to do what they want to do.

 Fact: The majority of child molesters are heterosexual males, not homosexual.....so why chance one of these molesters strolling into the same bathroom or locker room as young and little girls?

  Here is a question that needs shouted from the housetops: Why are the feelings of a few confused people more important than the feelings, safety, and security of many? Really.... why? John wants to be a woman and is angry he can't use the bathroom. Sally and her little girl are upset because John is allowed to use the women's bathroom and they feel unsafe.....why are John's feelings more important than their feelings and concerns? And John is the one demanding special rights. Men use men's bathrooms, and women use the women's......that is not a special right. That is just the way it is done. It is normal and decent.

 It is insane to criticize us and call us bigots for wanting things to stay normal and decent in regards to bathrooms. What sane individual would be OK with an adult male being in the same bathroom with his little girl - or even teen daughter or wife? What sane individual is OK with an adult male stripping naked in front of young girls? That is not hate, that is not bigoted, and we need to refuse to allow these radical people to slap us with those labels. THEY are the radical ones. They are the hateful ones not caring about the safety of women and young girls in their rush to cram their liberal agenda and ideology down the throats of all Americans.

  Mr. John Pavlovitz said we need to stay out of people's bathrooms and bedrooms. No, sir. They need to stay out of OUR bathrooms. The men need to stay out of our (women's) bathrooms, and the women need to stay out of our (men's) bathrooms. Your premise and title of your blog is completely wrong and backwards - we aren't in these people's bathrooms. It is them who are trying to get in the wrong bathrooms. If you call yourself a Christian, you should fix that...... you are giving the wrong idea right from your blog post title.

  I don't understand this whole transgender issue. I have dealt with these same-sex attractions for most of my life, but never did I want to be a woman. Never. I don't hate or dislike women, and am not attracted to them, but want to be one? No way. And no offense intended ladies.

  I actually feel very badly for these people. There are a lot of suicides among people who try to change their sex. They discover what they thought would make them happy, doesn't. They deserve love and pity, not hatred and revulsion. But that doesn't mean we need to cave to every wish and whim they have, and especially on this bathroom issue.

 There was a Catholic school that had a special bathroom put in for a boy who wanted to identify as a girl. That wasn't good enough. He wanted to use the girl's bathroom and they were suing the school. I don't know how that turned out.

  If Mr Pavlovitz has any daughters, I wonder if he'd be OK with a teenage boy or adult male going in the bathroom with her. Would he be OK with an adult male or teenage boy stripping naked in front of his little girl, if he has one? It has happened.

 And what does Mr P have to say about this - the man leading the charge in Charlotte, NC for transgenders to be allowed to use whatever bathroom they want.......is a registered sex offender. Would Mr P want that man in the same bathroom as the women in his family? (Story here)

  There was a college recently that opened up their bathrooms to whoever wanted to use them. They had to quickly change their policy. Teenage boys were going in and taking pictures of the girls under the stall and in the showers. Anyone with a brain should be able to see the can of worms this would open up...... but do they care?

 Liberals love to accuse Christians and conservatives of not caring about children. They love to tote them out and use them as props for more gun control, amnesty, or any other of their causes they can children for. Yet, I say liberals are the ones who don't care about children. They fight for the "right" to kill them in the womb. They encourage kids to experiment sexually as young as they can. They want men and boys to be allowed in the same bathrooms and locker rooms as little girls, teen girls, and women..... seriously... who are the ones who don't care about children in light of all that?

  There have been other incidents with men and boys using the women's bathrooms, and if you're interested, you can Google those and read about them..... but shouldn't just one be enough?

 Paypal is threatening to not put 400 jobs in North Carolina because they did the wise, decent, and moral thing and passed a law saying you must use the bathroom of your gender. Evidently Paypal cares more about the feelings of a few confused people than the safety of children and women. The Lieutenant Governor of North Carolina had an excellent response which is a good way to end this blog post:

“If our action in keeping men out of women’s bathrooms and showers protected the life of just one child or one woman from being molested or assaulted, then it was worth it. North Carolina will never put a price tag on the value of our children. They are precious and priceless. If a corporation wanting to do business in North Carolina does not see the worth of our children in the same light, then I wish them well as they do business somewhere else,” said Forest.

  Well said, sir. Well said. God bless you.


  1. Very well done, bro. Thank you for your logical and common sense approach that is so sadly lacking in our society today.

  2. Since you yourself state you know nothing about the issue of transgenderism, perhaps it is unwise to comment? I have two daughters and a son, I have no problem with them sharing a bathroom with a trans-woman or a trans-man. Peace to you.

    1. Sir, you are wrong on a couple of accounts. I said I don't understand how anyone would want to be the opposite sex - I didn't say I don't know anything about it - I do. I have heard the testimony of a friend of mine who was about to have the surgery and got saved and didn't...... and there's another young man I know of who has a remarkable testimony of the same kind. I do know a lot about - I just don't understand it.

      As for commenting...... anyone with decency and common sense should have a problem with a man being allowed in the same bathroom and locker rooms as little girls, teen girls, and women. There are legitimate concerns, and you nor anyone else can give a good explanation why the feelings of a very few matter more than the feelings and safety of many.

      What would you say to the women who have been raped and attacked who has concerns - and they are speaking up. What would you say to the girls at the University of Toronto who had boys taking pictures of them under bathroom stalls and in the shower - all because of this insane idea?

      Just because you aren't worried about some pervert or child molester taking advantage of this crazy crap, does not mean others aren't concerned, and does not mean they should have to suffer because a few people want to use the wrong bathroom.